Sometimes we forget how powerful our words are. What comes out of our mouths can be a blessing or a curse. Not just to others but to ourselves as well. When God created the earth He did not say it is dark, I cannot see. He said let there be light. And there was light. Yeshua tells us that with faith as little as a mustard seed we can say to that mountain move and because of our faith we can expect it to move. Any circumstance or problem that we may face is our mountain. Speak to it!

“Likewise, the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts. Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark!” (James 3:5)

“Truly I tell you, if anyone says to this mountain, ‘Go, throw yourself into the sea,’ and does not doubt in their heart but believes that what they say will happen, it will be done for them. (Mark 11:23)

“Very truly I tell you, whoever believes in me will do the works I have been doing, and they will do even greater things than these, because I am going to the Father.” (John 14:12)

Whatever your mountain is your words have power over it. Just as we can speak how bad it is, we can also speak scripture such as Matthew 17:20 (“say to this mountain move”) and Philippians 4:13 (“I can do all things through Christ”). Speak to that situation or problem. I remember years ago when I was told by the doctors I might not be able to walk again. I heard what they said. I saw the medical reports. However I would say to them the devil is a liar and I will walk. Of course they thought I was in denial and a little crazy. We may look and feel foolish to others when we see and hear something but we speak the opposite. They may think we are crazy but it’s crazy until it’s not! Our words are powerful and they can affect the outcome. Sometimes the miracle is in our mouth! No matter how bad it looks, our words should speak the opposite! Scriptures emphasizes the power of words and faith, encouraging Believers to speak life and declare what God says about a situation rather than focusing on the negative.

“It is written: “I believed; therefore I have spoken.” Since we have that same spirit of faith, we also believe and therefore speak,” (2 Corinthians 4:13)

“He replied, Because you have so little faith. Truly I tell you, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you.” (Matthew 17:20)

We pray and pray about our trials and tribulations, which is a good thing. But we must level up and speak to our mountains. The same power that raised our Savior from death runs through our veins through Jesus Christ. The Holy Spirit lives within us. Scripture tells us that we already have power over the enemy!

“I have given you authority to trample on snakes and scorpions and to overcome all the power of the enemy; nothing will harm you.” (Luke 10:19)

“But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you, and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the end of the earth.”  (Acts 1:8)

“These, then, are the things you should teach. Encourage and rebuke with all authority. Do not let anyone despise you.” (Titus 2:15)

When we are faced with a mountain-sized problem, we get scared and run to tell God all about it. This is good, no better one to run to. But the truth is, God already knows about our problems and He has already provided everything we need to overcome them. He has supplied everything we need by grace. Faith does not move God to do what He has already done; Jesus said speak to that mountain. Our words activate and manifest what already is. We can rebuke all things not of God. He gave us the authority and when we trust in God’s power and His promises, we can speak life and not death!

“God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind.” (2 Timonthy 1:7)

“Great is our Lord, and of great power: his understanding is infinite.” (Psalm 147:5)

“In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead.” (James 2:17)

“Very truly I tell you, whoever believes in me will do the works I have been doing, and they will do even greater things than these, because I am going to the Father. And I will do whatever you ask in my name, so that the Father may be glorified in the Son. You may ask me for anything in my name, and I will do it.” (John 14:12-14)

The enemy will use mountains to make us lose hope and to doubt ourselves. His hope is our faith will weaken and we will become too afraid to speak to the mountain. He will use mountains to block our vision and God’s purpose for our futures. He wants us to get upset with people and get upset with God. If he can do this, then he has won. He has kept us from experiencing all God has for us with a simple mountain. Yes, I said simple, it may look big or complicated to us, but to God it is simple. Look at those mountains through your spiritual eyes and not your natural vision. We can use the mountain to help us reach our destiny. God can cause that mountain to be a steppingstone! Whatever your mountain is; illness, depression, or financial, it does not matter. If it is outside what God has planned for you, command it to go in the name of Yeshua. There is power and authority in His name! And when you are in Him and He is in you, there is power in your words! Love and Blessings….

“The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.” (John 10:10)

“Behold, I give you the authority to trample on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy.” (Luke 10:19)

“For with God nothing shall be impossible.” (Luke 1:37)

I received a article from a fellow blogger and would like to share. It relates to mindfulness and how it can increase focus, performance, reduce stress, deepen self-insight, and help to develop compassion toward oneself and others. The Bible promotes a form of mindfulness focused on God, scripture, and the present moment, emphasizing stillness, prayer, and “setting minds on things above” (Colossians 3:2) It encourages renewing the mind (Romans 12:2), guarding the heart (Proverbs 4:23) and living in thankful, peaceful awareness rather than anxious distraction. The article displays ways to make mindfulness a part of our everyday life. I have attached her website below. Love and Blessings…

Making Mindfulness Part of Your Everyday Life

Mindfulness is the practice of paying attention—on purpose, in the present moment, without judgment—and this article is for people who want to be more mindful in everyday life, not just during quiet moments on a cushion. The challenge most people face isn’t understanding mindfulness; it’s remembering to practice it when life gets loud, rushed, or messy.

A quick grounding before we begin

Mindfulness doesn’t require a personality change, special clothes, or an empty calendar. It’s less about adding something new and more about noticing what’s already happening. When practiced regularly, it can help you feel calmer, more focused, and more connected to your own experiences—small and large alike.

Why mindfulness slips away so easily

Modern life rewards speed and multitasking. We eat while scrolling, listen while planning our reply, and rest while feeling guilty about it. Mindfulness often falls through the cracks because it seems optional or time-consuming.

The solution isn’t more discipline. It’s smarter placement.

How mindfulness actually fits into real life

Think of mindfulness as a series of small pauses rather than one long practice. It can show up while brushing your teeth, walking to your car, or waiting for coffee to brew. These moments already exist—you’re just learning to inhabit them more fully.

Everyday moments that invite awareness

● Noticing the temperature of the water while washing your hands

● Feeling your feet hit the ground as you walk

● Taking one slow breath before opening your email

● Listening fully to the first minute of a conversation

None of these require extra time. They require attention.

A simple how-to for building a daily mindfulness habit

Use this as a flexible checklist, not a rigid rulebook:

1. Anchor it to something you already do Pair mindfulness with habits like waking up, eating lunch, or going to bed.

2. Start tiny One conscious breath counts. Consistency matters more than duration.

3. Use your senses Ask yourself: What can I see, hear, feel, smell, or taste right now?

4. Drop the judgment If your mind wanders, notice it and gently return. That is the practice.

5. Repeat, imperfectly Some days will feel focused. Others won’t. Both are normal.

Gratitude as a doorway to mindfulness

One powerful way to stay present is through gratitude journaling. Writing down a few things you’re thankful for—especially small, ordinary moments—helps train your attention toward what’s already going well. Gratitude isn’t about ignoring difficulties; it’s about widening your perspective so positivity and possibility have room to exist alongside challenges. Over time, this practice can gently shift your mindset toward openness and presence.

What mindfulness can look like at different times of day

Time of day Mindful focus Simple practice

Morning Starting intentionally Take three slow breaths before checking your phone

Midday Resetting attention Eat one meal or snack without distractions

Afternoon Releasing tension Notice your shoulders and jaw; soften them

Evening Slowing down Reflect on one moment you noticed today

Night Letting go Scan your body before sleep, head to toe

This isn’t a schedule to follow perfectly—just a menu of options.

Frequently asked questions about mindfulness

Do I need to meditate to be mindful? No. Meditation helps, but mindfulness can happen during any activity.

How long before I notice benefits? Some people feel small shifts quickly; deeper changes often come with weeks of gentle consistency.

What if my mind won’t stop racing? That’s normal. Mindfulness isn’t about stopping thoughts—it’s about noticing them.

Can mindfulness help with stress? Yes. By noticing stress early, you often respond more calmly instead of reacting automatically.

A practical place to learn and practice If you’re looking for a calm, research-backed introduction to mindfulness, the UCLA Mindful Awareness Research Center (MARC) offers free guided meditations, short courses, and simple explanations grounded in everyday life. Their resources are clear, welcoming, and especially useful if you prefer a gentle, non-intimidating approach to building a regular practice.

Bringing it all together

Mindfulness doesn’t demand a quieter life—it meets you inside the one you already have. By weaving small moments of attention into your day, you build awareness naturally and sustainably. Over time, those moments add up to greater calm, clarity, and presence. Start small, stay curious, and let mindfulness grow with you.

AUTHOR: Hazel Bridges

hazel@agingwellness.org

The story of my birth is that my mother nor the doctors knew that she was pregnant with twins the entire nine months. In the delivery room after my sister made her entrance, three minutes later I entered the world, surprising the doctor and sending my mother into shock. (literally). They didn’t know, but God knew. God knows us before we are formed in our mothers wound. It is important that we go into the New Year knowing who we are and Whose we are! God created us in His image. Each one of us were uniquely crafted to be who we are by our Creator. Each of us were wonderfully and fearfully made! Believing this, trusting this, and having faith in God’s love is an empowering truth!

“I knew you before I formed you in your mother’s womb. Before you were born I set you apart and appointed you as my prophet to the nations.” (Jeremiah 1:5)

“So God created mankind in his own image,  in the image of God he created them;  male and female he created them.” (Genesis 1:27)

“For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight, in love” (Ephesians 1:4)

“I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.” (Psalm 139:14)

It is easy to compare who we are with others in a world where we are defined by what we have or how we look. Today’s society determines who you are by the color of your skin or your status in life. This can lead to self-doubt, discouragement and insecurity. The truth is each of us were created intentionally, with love, and with a divine plan in mind. Each of us has a purpose, a calling that God has set before us to fulfill. This truth will set you free from the world’s prejudices and preconceptions! I share with you a poem written by my son entitled “I Am Who He Says I Am” I encourage you to meditate on it and walk into the New Year knowing who you are! Love and Blessings…

I AM WHO HE SAYS I AM

“The Spirit itself beareth witness with our spirit, that we are the children of God: and if children, then heirs; heirs of God, and joint–heirs with Christ” (Romans 8:16–17)

God whispers into my spirit “I am enough.”

Not by human strength, but by His sovereign touch.  

God declares; “I am free” to finally be.

The image He carved in the halls of eternity.

God affirms; “I am absolutely complete,” whole and entire.

Filled with Christ’s essence and holy fire.

God promises; “I am His” a permanent claim.

He will never forsake, nor forget my name.

God sings; “I am His child,” He comforts me sincerely.

His grace and mercy flows permanently.

God proclaims; “I am saved,” and sanctified bright,

Clothed in His glory, emerging as light.

God announces; “I am redeemed,” no longer a slave.

A masterpiece fashioned, a debt fully paid.

God equips; “I am a warrior,” with a conqueror’s soul.  

With strength as an inheritance to make me whole.

God marvels; “I am wonderfully made,” anointed with a higher name.

I can’t be defined by what the world may proclaim.

God chooses; “I am chosen” and not cast me away.

Selected with joy, welcomed into His family.

God assures; “I am unconditionally loved.”

The kind of redemptive love that can only come from above.

God frees: “I am forgiven,” not barely but abundantly.

Salvation through faith has made me inherently worthy.

God invites; “I am His friend,” not a servant kept at a distance.

A co-heir with Christ, with the Holy Spirit’s assistance.

God reveals; “I am known” every thought, every breath.  

Every hidden corner of your soul is felt.

I am who God says I am,

No less, no more, no counterfeit claim.  

Identity anchored, destiny framed.

Inspired by God, written by Clifton “Vizhun” Johnson

My mama used to say some people will hang with you as long as they can use you. And when there is no longer anything in it for them, they will drop you like a hot potato. This seems to be exactly what’s going on in today’s society. It is no longer just about networking or helping one another, it’s more about what you can do for me. If you pay close attention you really can’t tell the difference between humans and crabs in a barrel, each climbing to get to the top by any means necessary!

“Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, for many false prophets have gone out into the world.” (John 4:1)

As Believers we know that the Bible strongly opposes using people for selfish gain, instead it points out the importance of love, respect, and mutual service. Scripture tells us to serve one another without expecting nothing in return. I’m reminded of Judas who allowed himself to be used by those who cared nothing for him. They simply used him to get to Jesus. He turned on Jesus for 30 pieces of silver. (Matthew 26:14-16) Unfortunately in these times there are those who will turn on you for less. They will exploit and manipulate others for their own gain. It is one of the signs that we are living in the last days. We see people using their power, position, and selfishness to take advantage of others kindness, vulnerability, and innocence. 

“But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good, treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, having a form of godliness but denying its power. Have nothing to do with such people.” (2 Timothy 3:1-5)

“For you were called to freedom, brothers. Only do not use your freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another.” (Galatians 5:13)

If you are one of those people who believe it is ok to use people for your own gain, you should know that there are consequences for those actions. Also know that because of God’s grace it is never too late for us to rectify our behavior. In Luke 19:1-10 the Bible tells us about Zacchaeus who was a tax collector. He used his position to exploit others but after encountering Jesus, he not only repented, but he also made restoration!

“I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.” (Galatians 2:20)

“For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast. For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them.” (Ephesians 2:8–9)

I cannot stress enough about spiritual discernment. If you are the user or the one being used, it is important that you realize who the real enemy is! The serpent didn’t come to Eve in the garden threatening to bite her if she didn’t eat the forbidden fruit. Instead, he came with deception presenting himself as being concerned for her welfare. Satan’s greatest weapon is deceit. The good news is that if we have a relationship with the Lord, our sincere faith will compel us to do the right thing and resist the devil! No one likes to be used. We should treat others as we want to be treated. 

“For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.” (Ephesians 6:12)

“Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.” (James 4:7)

“Teacher, which is the great commandment in the Law?” And he said to him, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the great and first commandment. And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself. On these two commandments depend all the Law and the Prophets.”

It is right to have a heart that wants to assist and serve others. This pleases Yahweh. However the Bible also teaches us that we must be wise and have discernment. In these dark times the enemy is using people to take advantage of others. It is important that we ask the Lord to show us what He wants us to do and not rely on our feelings. The Holy Spirit will give us the wisdom and discernment to recognize who is genuine. Praying for wisdom and discernment is crucial in these times! Love and Blessings…

“If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him.” (James 1:5)

“Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.” (Romans 12:2)

Believers recognize that our power lies in the authority given to us through Jesus Christ. This authority is not something we have earned but a gift that empowers us to conquer our fears and overcome adversaries. When we realize the significance of this authority over the enemy, we can approach life’s challenges with confidence and courage.

“I have given you authority to trample on snakes and scorpions and to overcome all the power of the enemy; nothing will harm you.” (Luke 10:19)

“Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.” (Ephesians 6:10-12)

If we want to use our authority and see God’s power fully at work in our lives we should pray for a greater understanding of how the power of God works so that we can maximize and experience the fullness of God’s abundant life! If you put a new light bulb in a lamp but the lamp is not plugged into a socket it will not light up. It has to be connected to a source of power to work. We must stop depending on the resources that God blesses us with but solely depend on Him who is our Source. Only then can we begin to maximize and experience the fullness of God’s abundant life! This power is not something we fight to gain; it flows from within when the Holy Spirit dwells in us. 

“But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you; and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.” (Acts 1:8)

“You, dear children, are from God and have overcome them, because the one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world.” (1 John 4:4)

“I can do all things through Him who strengthens me.” (Philippians 4:13)

We can plug into our  Source by studying the Word of God, praying, fasting, and worshiping. The truth is we can’t lose as long as we are walking with Jesus. Thanks to our God, we have the victory through Jesus Christ. When we walk with Jesus, His power lives within us. Scripture tells us that there is a name above all other names. That name is Jesus. He has the power! All we have to do is tap into it. When we stay plugged into the source we don’t have to wrestle for victory, because of Jesus we already have it. We do not have to strive to overcome, we can stand because Jesus already overcame! Let’s stop fighting for what has already been won and start tapping into our Source!  Love and Blessings…

“But thanks be to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.” (1 Corinthians 15:57)

“May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope.” (Romans 15:13)

In this season of my life in order for me to remember most things it helps when I write them down. However long before this season, I wrote things down. The experts say that this is good because when we write things down they become real, something we can see and therefore turn into reality. However, I used to do it because I planned everything and I thought it helped me to stay in control. I would always write out my plan and when my plan did not work out, I always had a plan B. Most of the time plan A or B did not  work. It took me some time to realize I’m only in control when I surrender control to God, and if my plans are not aligned with God’s plans for my life, it’s not going to work. God’s plan does not need a plan B! And when we follow His plan neither do we!

“Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails.” (Proverbs 19:21)

“The LORD of hosts has sworn: “As I have planned, so shall it be, and as I have proposed, so shall it stand, “(Isaiah 14:24)

“Submit to God, and you will have peace; then things will go well for you. Listen to his instructions, and store them in your heart.” (Job 22:21-22)

There is nothing wrong with planning, but unless our plans align with God’s plan, it’s possible we will need a plan B and sometimes a plan C and D. In fact, unless we totally submit to God and His will for our life, we could go through the whole alphabet and still not get it right! Our human wisdom and abilities are limited, and we cannot always be in control of things. But if we know God, we know He is unlimited and is always in control. There was a time when giving total control of my life to anyone, even God was scary. I’m sure I’m not the only one who has or still feels this way. But I assure you that when we surrender fully to the will of God and allow Him to give us direction and guidance, there is no fear and we will not need a plan B!

“I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing.” (John 15:5)

“Commit to the LORD whatever you do, and he will establish your plans.” (Proverbs 16:3)

“I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my loving eye on you.” (Psalm 32:8)

“For I know the plans I have for you, declares the LORD, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” (Jeremiah 29:11)

God’s plan for our lives are joy, peace, prosperity, hope, and a future with Him for eternity. Our plans are usually self-satisfying, temporary, and often separate us from God. We tend to get upset when things do not go as we planned. And even when we are following God’s plan, there will be some obstacles on our journey. We may find suffering, hurt, pain, and rejection. This is the enemy working to get us distracted. He wants us to give up because even he knows what God has for us is good. This is no time to get upset and start thinking of a plan B. This is the time for prayer, trust, and faith! God will guide us and bring us through. As a matter of fact, we will come out better and stronger if we endure. God’s plan for us is not only eternal, but full of hope even in the mist of life’s storms. God is always in control no matter what it looks like and He promised us that it will all work out for our good. God’s purpose will prevail, He doesn’t need a plan B!

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.” (Philippians 4:6)

“There is no wisdom, no insight, no plan that can succeed against the LORD.” (Proverbs 21:30)

“Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths” (Proverbs 3:5-6)

“And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are called according to His purpose.” (Romans 8:28)

If you are contemplating whether to go with your plan or God’s plan, I urge you to go with God’s plan, it is always much better than anything we can think or imagine! It is not about carrying out our will on earth but fulfilling God’s will for our life on earth. Love and Blessings…

“Now to Him who is able to [carry out His purpose and] do superabundantly more than all that we dare ask or think [infinitely beyond our greatest prayers, hopes, or dreams], according to His power that is at work within us,” (Ephesians 3:20)

I hear people say that they match the energy that is given to them. I confess that there was a time when I was one of those people. I no longer match energy anymore unless it is good positive energy. Why? Because matching some energy will have you mirroring demons. All energy is not good energy. If a person’s energy is negative and it’s coming from a dark place, we have a choice, we can match their energy and go to that dark place with them or we can choose to match the energy of Jesus who is the light of the world. When we follow Jesus we will not walk in darkness. 

“In him was life, and that life was the light of all mankind. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.” (John 1:4-5)

“When Jesus spoke again to the people, he said, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.” (John 8:12)

You may think you are only matching energy when you are really matching evil spirits. And these demonic spirits will pull you out of character if you are not careful. This is how the enemy deceives us. Scripture tells us that we do not battle against flesh but against the powers of darkness in this world and in the spirit realms. The enemy will use family, friends or anyone who allows him to use them to get us out of the character of Christ. 

“For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.” (Ephesians 6:12)

“Be sober and watch: because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, goes about seeking whom he may devour. Be sober and self-controlled. Be watchful. Your adversary, the devil, walks around like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour.” (1 Peter 5:8)

Jesus walked this earth as a fleshly man so He wasn’t immune to the negative energy thrown His way. He lived in a chaotic, complex world just as we do. Jesus had emotions. He cried, loved, rejoiced, and on more than one occasion He felt anger. However, how Jesus chose to respond to His anger is the energy we should strive to match. He was slow to anger and had extraordinary patience. He took his time before taking action, and when He did, his approach was never malicious or unkind. His words were never cruel or hurtful. Even when He turned the tables of the thieving traders in a place of worship, it was not motivated by rage but by the energy and passion to right the wrongs He was seeing. (Matthew 21:12-13) Yes, Jesus got angry when others were treated unjustly, but he didn’t get angry on his own behalf. Even when he was mocked, insulted, and sentenced to death, he didn’t lash out. He forgave them. This is the type of energy we should strive to match! We must make sure that our energy aligns with God’s spirit and that we maintain pure energy.

“The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us.” (John 1:14)

“For we do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are.” (Hebrews 4:15)

“Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice.” (Ephesians 4:31)

“Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things. Those things, which ye have both learned, and received and heard, and seen in me, do: and the God of peace shall be with you.” (Philippians 4:8-9)

If a person’s energy is detrimental to our spiritual, physical, or mental being, of course we should remove ourselves or at least adjust our efforts. It doesn’t mean that they become our enemies and we can’t love and pray for them. Prayer changes things and God changes
people! Matching their darkness only takes us out of the light and into darkness. And there is always that possibility that if we choose to stay in the light, God will use us to pull them out. Remember light always overpowers darkness! Protect your peace, guard your spirit, and continue to let your light shine! Love and Blessings…

“But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you,” (Matthew 5:44)

“bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you.” (Luke 6:28)

We are all familiar with the term two-faced. It is a person who pretends to be nice and friendly to you but at the same time saying unfriendly things about you to others behind your back. The dictionary describes a “two-faced” person as deceitful and dishonest. Back in the day the O’Jays had a hit song called “The Backstabbers”. The song said backstabbers smiled in your face while all the time they were trying to take your place. In other words two-faced people are hypocritical, deceitful, insincere, and dishonest. These people pretend to be for you but at the same time they are working against you. This sounds like the work of satan and his demonic spirits. We call them two-faced but the Bible calls them hypocrites!

“So you, too, outwardly appear righteous to men, but inwardly you are full of hypocrisy and lawlessness.” (Matthew 23:28)

“Do not take me away with the wicked, And with workers of iniquity, who speak peace to their neighbors, but evil is in their hearts.” (Psalm 28:3)

“A double-minded man is unstable in all his ways.” (James 1:8)

Two-faced people may fool some people sometimes, but they can never fool God. Jesus knew what Judas was going to do before he did it. Judas Iscariot was one of the twelve Apostles. He is known for betraying Jesus. He claimed to love Jesus, but he turned around and betrayed Him with a kiss. Judas was a two-faced backstabber for certain!  

“Then one of the Twelve—the one called Judas Iscariot—went to the chief priests and asked, “What are you willing to give me if I deliver him over to you?” So they counted out for him thirty pieces of silver. From then on Judas watched for an opportunity to hand him over.” (Matthew 26:14-16)

The worst thing Believers can do is be hypocritical (two-faced) towards God. This type of behavior is not acceptable to God and it makes us terrible disciples for the Lord. One of the major complaints of non-believers is that the church is full of hypocrites. They are not talking about the church building, they are talking about God’s people. And unfortunately this is true, especially in these times. The Lord expects the ones He has redeemed by the blood of His Son to set the example for the rest of the world. If the church is not in pursuit of holiness, the world sees no need to change. So judgment begins in the household of God, with His own children, as He teaches us to live like Yeshua. We are supposed to bring people to Christ, not run them away because of hypocrisy. Of course all Believers should not be judged on the basis of those who claim to be Believers, those who practice the opposite of what Yeshua taught and how He lived. Yeshua had a lot to say about two-faced people and hypocrites. The scribes and the Pharisees hated Him because he directly confronted the religious hypocrites of His day. Modern day hypocrites are no different, they conceal their true feelings or motives, and adopt certain religious rituals to impress the world. We are not here to be liked, we are here to be light in a dark world. If we profess belief and love for God but in our hearts and in our actions our agenda is still our own and not Gods will, scripture says we are hypocrites. God is never fooled because He sees right through to the two-faced heart!

“And he said unto them, Ye are they which justify yourselves before men; but God knoweth your hearts: for that which is highly esteemed among men is abomination in the sight of God.” (Luke 16:15)

And the Lord said: “Because this people draw near with their mouth
and honor me with their lips, while their hearts are far from me, and their fear of me is a commandment taught by men,” (Isaiah 29:13)

“Then Jesus said to the crowds and to his disciples: 2 “The teachers of the law and the Pharisees sit in Moses’ seat. 3 So you must be careful to do everything they tell you. But do not do what they do, for they do not practice what they preach.” (Matthew 23:1-3)

A hypocrite is not a person who commits sin occasionally, because we all have fallen short. However, hypocrites practice sin on a regular basis while pretending to be sinless and judging others at the same time. God does not get angry and turn His back on us when we fall short to sin as the enemy wants us to believe. God’s anger for our sins fell upon His son, Yeshua on the cross. He became the lamb of God, who died and rose for our sins. It is His gift to us, but we have to accept it, all of it! We don’t get to accept it and then hide it away in the closet while we accept and use the gifts of the world. That is hypocritical(two-faced)!

“If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. If we say that we have not sinned, we make him a liar, and his word is not in us.” (1 John 1:8-10)

“ for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,” (Romans 3:23)

“Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership can righteousness have with wickedness?” (2 Corinthians 6:14)

It is impossible to live for God and live for the world at the same time. Scripture tells us that it cannot be done. But don’t take my word, look at God’s Word. James 4:4 says, “You adulterous people, don’t you know that friendship with the world means enmity against God? Therefore, anyone who chooses to be a friend of the world becomes an enemy of God.” As God’s people, we are called to think and live differently, shaped by His truth rather than by worldly culture. We are either one hundred percent for Him or we are against Him. Jesus stated: “He that is not with Me is against Me” (Matthew 12:30). We simply cannot walk with God and hold hands with the devil!  

“If you were of the world, the world would love its own. Yet because you are not of the world, but I chose you out of the world, therefore the world hates you.” (John 15:19)

“No one can serve two masters, for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and money.” (Matthew 6:24)

“But if serving the LORD seems undesirable to you, then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your ancestors served beyond the Euphrates, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you are living. But as for me and my household, we will serve the LORD.” (Joshua 24:15)

We don’t want hypocrites (two-faced people) in our lives, and we definitely don’t want to be one ourselves! We must ask God for discernment to see through hypocritical hearts and help us not be corrupted or tempted by satan to turn our face from God. We must pray that we don’t fall into the trap of saying one thing but thinking another in our hearts. Brothers and sisters, if you are straddling the fence, being two-faced with God, choose now to turn your face toward Him, when we keep our focus on Him, the things of this world grow dimmer in the light of His glory and grace. We cannot face both ways! As for me and my house, we will face the Lord! Love and Blessings…

Relationships work when individuals come in with no delusions. Some people believe that the other person in their relationship must fulfill their every need and make them complete. When I say relationships, I am not speaking of just a man and a woman. This pertains to any relationship; parents and children, siblings, friends, co-workers or neighbors. The truth is we can search high and low on this earth and we will not find another human being to give us what we need to be complete. This is why we see divorce on the rise, we see families falling apart, we see disorder and confusion in the homes, in our communities, and yes even in the body of Christ, the church. Most people find it difficult to accept a person for who they really are and be willing to help them become the best version of themselves. That takes compassion, patience, selflessness, humility, and kindness. It takes loving someone unconditionally. This is not easy if we don’t know who we are and Whose we are. In order to be successful in any relationship, we must return to the One who loved us first, the One who can complete us, and the One who loves us unconditionally. 

“being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 1:6)

“We love because he first loved us. Whoever claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar. For whoever does not love their brother and sister, whom they have seen, cannot love God whom they have not seen.” (1 John 4:19-20)

In my humble opinion we as humans use the word love too loosely when it comes to relationships. The word flows from our mouth but our actions do not follow. As a Believer and follower of Christ this should not be so. God created us to love, we are called to first love Him and then to love others as He loves us. This is not optional but a command that reflects our identity in Christ. Our ability to love others is a reflection of our relationship with God. If we truly know God, His love will naturally flow through us to others. It is a characteristic of those who sincerely follow Christ. 

“The most important one,” answered Jesus, “is this: ‘Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength. The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself. There is no commandment greater than these.” (Mark 12:29-31)

“We love each other because he loved us first… If someone says, ‘I love God,’ but hates a Christian brother or sister, that person is a liar.” (1 John 4:19-20)

“Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth.” (1 John 3:18)

Jesus Christ displayed the highest, most purest form of love on the cross when He who was sinless took our place for our sins. He literally died for us so that we would no longer be separated from God and can continue living through physical death and have eternal life with God. Jesus died for us because he loves us. God reveals His own love for us by sacrificing His only Son while we were still sinners.

“For Christ also suffered once for sins, the righteous for the unrighteous, that he might bring us to God, being put to death in the flesh but made alive in the spirit,” (1 Peter 3:18)

“But God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” (Romans 5:8)

Can you imagine another human being loving you like this and you returning that same love? Don’t you agree that this world would be a better place? This kind of love does not come naturally to us because of our sinful fleshly being. However, it does come naturally to God and is an essential part of Him. By drawing closer to Him and experiencing His love, we can begin to understand what real love means. Only through Him can we show and experience true love. True love isn’t born just out of emotions, feelings, familiarity, or attraction but from a choice that we make. A choice that we make knowing that God is working in and through us to love like Him. It requires faithfulness, commitment, and sacrifice without expecting anything in return. The absence of such love shows a lack of a genuine relationship with God because He is love. 

“Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.” (Romans 12:10)

“Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.” (1 Thessalonians 5:11)

“Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” (Ephesians 4:31-32)

“Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven.” (Luke 6:37)

“Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.” (Ephesians 4:3)

The most important relationship we can have is with our Lord and Savior. He desires a relationship with us and He wants us to have healthy, loving relationships with others. He planted within each one of us the need to love and be loved. If we have a relationship with Him and we are spending quality time in His presence there is no way His love will not rub off on us toward others. When we surrender to Him, the Holy Spirit will teach  and guide us so that we can love like Him in spite of our flesh. Scripture defines what love is and how we should love; “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trust, always hopes, always perseveres.” (1 Corinthians 13:4-7) This is how we are called to love. We can start by going back to our first love, the Lord God Almighty. Let us go back to His Word and apply it to our relationships. It will transform us and our relationships for the glory of God. Love and Blessings…

“Then the LORD God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.” (Genesis 2:18)

“Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend.” (Proverbs 27:17)

“Therefore if you have any encouragement from being united with Christ, if any comfort from his love, if any common sharing in the Spirit, if any tenderness and compassion, then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind.”  (Philippians 2:1-2)