A sitcom around the mid 50’s to 1960; featured a family where the dad was the ultimate authority figure. His persona depicted an appropriate title for the series; Father Knows Best. Those in the household of faith realize our heavenly FATHER governs our lives according to His plan. Romans 8:28 confirms, “And we know that all things work together for good to them that love GOD, to them who are called according to His purpose”.  Granted, all things are not “good”.  Yet, the magnificent LORD is working it out for the good of those who love Him”. The FATHER knows best.

Naturally, our finite conceptions can’t comprehend GOD’s infinite wisdom; still, we must never forget The FATHER knows best. It’s through trials we gain tolerance, suffering we are to seek solace, and with persecution we can pursue peace. Along with a daily devotional regime, there are 3 primary tenets that can assist us in getting closer to GOD. They are: Trust, Time and Temperance.  JESUS trusted GOD when He was agonizing over the crucifixion. (Luke 22:42); “Saying, FATHER if thou be willing, remove this cup from me: nevertheless not my will, but thine, be done”. JESUS trusted GOD despite His afflictions. Develop the tenacity to accept what you are waiting to be changed. Roman 5:3-5 advises to glory in tribulations. Hardships can yield outcomes of patience, experience and hope, how virtuous. Many people sport frayed banners of betrayal. Loss of trust can foster vulnerability or rigidity. This adversely affects our ability to function. Trust issues can be profound based upon the perils of the past and dismal prospects of the future. Too much energy is expended and exhausted on trying to discern who is trustworthy. The FATHER knows best; simply ask Him. The FATHER knows what things ye have need of before ye ask Him”. Relinquish your hurts, fears and inhibitions to GOD. You can trust the LORD to always love and direct you. Recall when David was being relentlessly pursued by jealous Saul?  GOD continually protected David. (1 Samuel 18-24). If GOD is for you, who can be against you? The FATHER knows best.

Spending time with GOD cultivates the relationship. As we learn more about Him; we understand GOD knows all about us, (Luke 12:7).  Time involves; studying the Bible, praying and engaging in spiritual activities. Temperance requires discipline, which can be acquired through fasting and practicing obedience. The LORD expects Christians to exercise temperance according to His commandments and teachings. The flesh is weak, while the Spirit is willing, (Matthew 26:41). Don’t make excuses; focus on becoming a GODly example. The devil vies to mar and destroy individuals, marriages and families. He strives to distract us from following JESUS. Many of Satan’s tactics are surrounded by manipulation, money, deceit, confusion and temptation. If you err, quickly repent. It’s paramount to forgive others if we want GOD to forgive us. Remember vengeance belongs to God. The FATHER knows best. The LORD is always in our presence, so stay spiritually connected.

Dads and father figures should love, provide, instruct and protect. Our GOD does this immeasurably. Matthew 7:11 tells “If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them that ask him? “No good thing will He withhold from those who walk uprightly, (Psalm 84:11). Why worry? The FATHER knows best.

Regardless of what you have endured or may be facing; GOD’s sustaining Word says; “The LORD will perfect that which concerns me” (Psalm 138:8).  HE is aware of our troubles, pain and despair. GOD will never leave or forsake us. His power heals and restores. Whether you’re reaping rewards, repercussions or regrets; realize the best is yet to come; “But as it is written, Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man, the things which GOD hath prepared for them that love him”, (1 Corinthians 2:9). Wipe the tears and prepare to fulfill your divine purpose. It’s time to release doubt, dismay, anxiety, and be content. Know Beloved; inherently you are GOD’s child, and The FATHER knows best!

Joni Sue Hursey, L.P.C.
Beyond the Burden Counseling Services
4310 Indian River Rd, Suite 4
Chesapeake, VA 23325
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“We treat a variety of mental disorders with emphasis on marriage and family restoration.”

Sometimes when life’s storms happen it can throw us off balance. This is for the person who is feeling discouraged today. For the person who is feeling like everything is going wrong and your life is a total mess. It could be an unexpected diagnosis, a family issue, or financial problems. It could be you are just at a crossroads and don’t know which way to go. Whatever it is, I don’t know of a single person that planned for their life to get turned upside down. Unfortunately, it happens and it will continue to happen as long as we are in this world. If you think because you are a Christian that life will show you some mercy, think again! Life will come at you harder because the enemy is mad! However even though we live in this world, scripture tells us that we are not of the world. God wants us to live our life on this earth without being under the control of the world and satan’s system. The Bible tells us that none of us are immune to life’s troubles and sufferings. The good news is Jesus Christ tells us that we can be at peace during these times because He has overcome the world!

“I do not ask that You would take them out of the world, but that You would keep them out of the hands of the evil one. They are not of the world, even as I am not of the world. Sanctify them in the truth; Your word is truth. As You have sent Me into the world, I also have sent them into the world.” (John 17:15-18)

“These things I have spoken unto you, that in Me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation, but be of good cheer: I have overcome the world.” (John 16:33)

I have heard people say the devil is busy. He may be but God is busier and He is constantly working life out for our good. God is always working to make our pain worthwhile, even if we can’t see it.

“Clearly, you are a God who works behind the scenes, God of Israel, Savior God.” (Isaiah 45:15-25)

“But Jesus replied, ‘My Father is always working, and so am I.” (John 5:17)

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” (Jeremiah 29:11)

Our own planning and good intentions can’t deliver us from the storms of life. We need the power of Jesus Christ through the Holy Spirit who lives within us. We can’t save ourselves. We need to be saved. A drowning man can’t save himself, but he can be saved by simply letting someone save him. If he struggles, still trying to save himself, he will actually hinder the person saving him. We need to realize that if we allow Him, Lord Jesus will save us from the storms of life.

“And now I will send the Holy Spirit, just as my Father promised. But stay here in the city until the Holy Spirit comes and fills you with power from heaven.” (Luke 24:49)

“Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words” (Roman 8:26).

In times of trouble I remind myself of Apostle Paul who in spite of all his sufferings, declared his confidence that God would allow him to endure anything. Despite all he went through, Paul was still filled with joy and with the Holy Spirit. (Acts 13:52) He said nothing is impossible with God and that if God is for us, who can be against us. Paul shows us that as Christians if we persevere, we have the ability to endure under hardship and persecution. (Acts 14:19, 21-22, 12:25,13:13,13:6, 13:10-11)

“I can endure all these things through the power of the one who gives me strength.” (Philippians 4:13)

“Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but not with God; all things are possible with God.” (Mark 10:27)

“What then are we to say about these things? If God is for us, who is against us? He who did not withhold his own Son, but gave him up for all of us, will he not with him also give us everything else? Who will bring any charge against God’s elect?” (Romans 8:31-33)

The more we seek, praise, and keep our focus on God, we can have peace during the storms of life. Not the peace the world gives but the peace that we can only get from Jesus. During our troubles we must seek our Lord Jesus, spend time with Him, praying, and consuming His Word. Because when we are spiritually weak and malnourished, the storms can easily overwhelm us. Even during the storms, God will use that person or situation to continue to transform us into the image of Christ. Sometimes this process is painful. However we can choose to praise and glorify while in the storm.

“And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 4:7)

“But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you” (Matthew 6:33)

“And we all, who with unveiled faces contemplate the Lord’s glory, are being transformed into his image with ever-increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit.” (2 Corinthians 3:18

“I will bless the LORD at all times; his praise shall continually be in my mouth. (Psalm 34:1)

As Believers we do not react as the enemy expects us too, but as children of the Most High. We react by faith no matter what it looks like. Despite what is going on or how we are feeling, we praise Him anyway. God said He would never leave or forsake us which means He is still with us in the storms of life.

“Be strong and courageous. Do not fear or be in dread of them, for it is the LORD your God who goes with you. He will not leave you or forsake you.” (Deuteronomy 31:6)

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 4:6-7)

It really is not what life throws at us but how we handle it. We can either let it knock us down and give up or we can get up and fight the battle that Jesus has already won. Remember during the difficult times that God said ALL things work out for those that love Him, not some things. God is faithful and His mercy endures forever! Be encouraged! Love and Blessings…

“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” (Romans 8:28-29).

I got my license when I was a teenager and along with it came fear. All my life I have had anxiety when it comes to driving but I do it anyway. Every single time I get under the wheel I pray asking God to take over the wheel and that no harm or danger will come my way. You would think once I prayed the anxiety would leave but it has not. Some may say my faith is not strong enough, but I beg to differ. It is my faith that allows me to continue to drive in spite of my anxiety. After all these years of driving, I was in my first car accident a couple of weeks ago. My testimony is that doing this accident God did just that for which I always prayed. He took over the wheel, I did not panic and there was no fear. It was surreal! Those who know me kept saying they were so proud of me. All I could say was thank You Jesus for showing up and taking over the wheel! There is so much that could have went wrong. But God is faithful! I believe all those times that I asked God to take away my anxiety, He did not because He wanted me to recognize and act on His grace which is sufficient. The courage we receive from God isn’t due to the absence of fear, but the ability to move past it.

“But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness. Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.” (2 Corinthians 12:9)

We all may know someone who we would describe as fearless. They. are. afraid. of. nothing! Some people trust the Lord so much that fear has no place in their life. And some people, Christian or not, it seems are just born that way. Unfortunately, some of us grow faint in the face of discomfort, diagnosis, separation from loved ones, mental challenges, and more which can prompt our fears, even if but a moment. But it only takes a moment for the devil to use the spirit of fear and attempt to set us back captive to what Jesus delivered us from. There are so many scriptures telling us that fear is of the enemy and that God did not give us the spirit of fear. These scriptures are there because God knows sometimes we need to be reminded that He is greater than any thing or person we may fear. We can have faith in God, God’s plan for us, and God’s plan for the world but still struggle with our human fears and the lies of the enemy. God tells us that He knitted us together in our mother’s womb and I know that not one stitch was fear. The proof is that when babies are born there is no fear, and as they grow they are fearless to the point where they could hurt themselves. Why is that? Because satan has not touched them yet. The spirit of fear does not come from God but is one of the devil’s greatest weapons. The good news is that the Lord is faithful and He will deliver us.

“For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother’s womb.” (Psalm 139:13)

“I sought the Lord, and He heard me, and delivered me from all my fears.” (Psalm 34:4)

Life can send us trouble at any time and fear will creep in, but the reality is as believers, we can experience God’s kind of peace in the midst of fearful circumstances. We must not allow the spirit of fear to stop us. Nor let anyone convince us that we have no faith. Faith is what keeps you moving in spite of fear. The three Hebrew boys, Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego may have experienced a moment of fear, I don’t know. The point is that they were unshakable in their trust and faith in God even when it came to them being thrown into a fiery furnace. (Daniel 3:16-18) King David who God called a man after His own heart had a fear-filled moment when he found himself in Philistine territory while fleeing a jealous Saul. When he was recognized, he was anxious about what might happen to him. In Samuel 21, verse 12 we see David was very much afraid of Achis King of Gath. But David wrote in Psalm 56:3-4 that when he was afraid, he put his trust in God. That is exactly what we should do.

“Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid” (John 14:27).

“When I am afraid, I put my trust in you.” (Psalm 56:3)

King Jehoshaphat’s first reaction was fear when he and his small tribe of Judah were besieged on all fronts by three powerful armies quickly advancing toward them. But then what did he do? He set himself to seek the LORD, and proclaimed a fast throughout all Judah to ask help from the Lord. (2 Chronicles 20-34) The lesson here is to seek God at all times even when we are afraid. And then there is the story of Esther which is very encouraging to those who are facing fear. Esther, who I believe had to be afraid on her way to see the King. She made a decision to approach the King which could bring her to death. But she went anyway, saying “if I perish, I perish” (The Book of Esther) I love this story because it shows the hand of God is at work in the lives of His people. It also shows us that God will deliver His people!

I don’t know about you, but this gives me hope! I’m so glad that the Word of God gives us examples of men and women who faced fear but their faith was bigger. They trusted God more. This is what we should do as well whenever we are fearful. Seek the Lord and trust Him. Once the spirit of fear sets in, the devil will try to convince us to run away, or get angry, frustrated, and disappointed in God. God doesn’t condemn us when we are afraid. This is the time to seek the Lord, His perfect love will cast out all fear. If we are afraid, we stir up the Spirit that lives in us, reactivate it if need be, and keep moving about our Father’s business! We will not let fear stop us, that is the enemies plan. Remember that same God that raised Jesus from the dead lives in us.

“Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you?” (1 Corinthians 3:16)

“Now God has not only raised the Lord, but will also raise us up through His power.” (1 Corinthians 6:14)

“Have not I commanded thee? Be strong and of a good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed: for the Lord thy God is with thee whithersoever thou goest.” (Joshua 1:9 KJV)

Every decision we make based on fear will not be in accordance with God’s will. Fear in any area is never okay, especially if it keeps us from fulfilling God’s mission for us. However, trusting Him strengthens us to overcome it and keep moving forward. When we’re afraid to do something we know we should do, that’s the time we must stop and seek the Lord, meditating on His Word and promises. If you are in a constant fight with fear, remember this promise; “No weapon formed against you shall prosper.” (Isaiah 54:17) Love and Blessings…

“For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.” (2 Timothy 1:7)

“God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.” (Psalm 46:1)

When we pray we are in fact having a conversation with God. Because of sin there was a barrier between God and His people, however this is no longer true and we can speak directly to Him because of what Jesus Christ did for us on the cross. Jesus Christ is the connection and the bridge between God and us. He is our Mediator and our Advocate. Unlike our fellow human beings who are sometimes unavailable, there are no limits to when or where we can conversate with God. Jesus Chris is always available for us, anytime and anyplace. We don’t have to search for Him, His Holy Spirit resides in us. Meditate on the following scriptures which tells a story on how much God loves us.

“It’s your sins that have cut you off from God. Because of your sins, He has turned away and will not listen anymore” (Isaiah 59:2)

“Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” (John 14:6)

“But the Counselor, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, he will teach you all things, and bring to your remembrance all that I have said to you.” (John 14:26)

“Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If any man hear My voice and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with Me.” (Revelations 3:20)

“When you call out to me and come to me in prayer, I will hear your prayers. When you seek me in prayer and worship, you will find me available to you.” (Jeremiah 29:12-14)

“So let us come boldly to the throne of our gracious God. There we will receive His mercy, and we will find grace to help us when we need it most.” (Hebrews 4:16)

In 1 Thessalonians 5:17, the Apostle Paul encourages Believers with these words: “pray without ceasing”. When Paul says pray without ceasing, he is emphasizing the importance of maintaining a continual attitude of prayer. It doesn’t mean we must be in constant verbal prayer, but rather that our hearts should remain open to God, seeking His guidance, comfort, and presence throughout our daily lives. In other words we can connect with God at all times without opening our mouths.

“But stay awake at all times, praying that you may have strength to escape all these things that are going to take place, and to stand before the Son of Man.” (Luke 21:36)

“Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18)

“And rising very early in the morning, while it was still dark, he departed and went out to a desolate place, and there he prayed.” (Mark 1:35)

A conversation involves back and forth communication. It is listening as well as talking. When we talk to God the listening part is more important than the talking because He already knows our relationship with Him, our name, and our deepest thoughts. It is important that we be still and have ears to hear what God has to say.

“Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations.” (Jerimiah 1:5)

“For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope. Then you will call upon Me and go and pray to Me, and I will listen to you.” (Jeremiah 29:11-12)

“God already knows our deepest thoughts. And he understands what the Spirit is saying, because the Spirit speaks for his people in the way that agrees with what God wants.” (Romans 8:27)

“My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me.” (John 10:27)

In Jeremiah 33:33 God says, “Call to me and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know.” God is promising to answer when we call on Him. He promises us that He will reveal great and wonderful things to us. When we listen to God’s voice, we open ourselves up to His wisdom, understanding, counsel, strength, courage, knowledge, comfort, and instructions.

“Whoever is of God hears the words of God. The reason why you do not hear them is that you are not of God.” (John 8:47)

“Oh, that My people would listen to Me.” (Psalm 81:13)

We must pay close attention to the instructions the Holy Spirit gives us. No matter what it looks like through our natural eyes, if God says do it, do it, If God says do not do it, do not do it. And do it exactly how and when He tells you, not how and when you feel it should happen! Delayed obedience is still disobedience!

“Everyone then who hears these words of mine and does them will be like a wise man who built his house on the rock.” (Matthew 7:24)

“But Samuel replied, “What is more pleasing to the LORD: your burnt offerings and sacrifices or your obedience to his voice? Listen! Obedience is better than sacrifice, and submission is better than offering the fat of rams.” (1 Samuel 15:22)

If we move ahead of God, it will not last, God will not bless us with things that we are not ready to experience. (that is what the devil does to pull you in and it is temporary.) If we move behind God, we may miss the opportunity to serve or to be a blessing. God’s purpose will still be fulfilled, He does not need us, we need Him. If we do not move at all, because of fear or lack of faith, we are stuck, then the enemy does a happy dance because he knows we do not fully trust God because fear is not of God. Our faith must be bigger than our fear! The best thing we can do is move with God, and allow the Holy Spirit to guide us.

“But when he, the Spirit of truth, comes, he will guide you into all the truth. He will not speak on his own; he will speak only what he hears, and he will tell you what is yet to come.” (John 16:13)

If you feel at times you are not hearing from God, the Bible encourages us to wait on the Lord. (Psalm 27:14) This is the time to trust and hope, believing that even if God seems silent today, He will eventually make all things right. Be still! Sometimes God unfolds His purposes, promises, and plans to us in the quiet moments when we shut out the clatter and wait patiently. Sometimes God’s silence is an opportunity to deepen our faith and draw closer to Him even if we don’t understand.

“Be still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the heathen, I will be exalted on the earth.” (Psalm 46:10)

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths.” (Proverbs 3:5-6)

“And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them.” (Romans 8”28)

The good news is if we are at a crossroad in life and don’t know what to do, we have an instruction book called the Bible. “All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:” (2 Timothy 3:16) If we study it and firmly rely upon God’s promises, wisdom, power, and His goodness, we can live the life He promised us, an abundant life. (2 Corinthians 9:8) An abundant life is one of love, joy, peace, and the fruits of the Spirit. It is not just material wealth but eternal blessings and a deep relationship with God. Love and Blessings…

It has become popular to use the words “Your truth” or “my truth” in today’s society. In the world there are multiple definitions of truth. Studies have revealed that people’s belief in what is truth is influenced by what they perceive. The problem with that is that perception is subjective and can be affected by many factors. In other words, the worlds truth changes. We can’t trust what is true and what is not because the worlds truth is not constant and steadfast. The truth of the matter is there is only one truth on which we can rely. “Your truth” is definitely different from “The Truth” because “The Truth” is Jesus Christ.

Jesus answered, ‘I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” (John 14:6)

Truth is a word that is used 151 times in the Bible. Jesus says, “He is the truth (John 14:6), Isaiah calls the Lord “the God of truth” (Isaiah 65:16), and the Apostle John rejoices to find Christians “walking in the truth, just as we were commanded by the Father” (2 John 16:1:4). Scripture tells us that true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and in truth. (John 4:23). As Believers, growing in Christ involves the desire for God’s truth rather than inventing our own. God’s truth does not change for He cannot lie.

“God is not a man, that he should lie; neither the son of man, that he should repent: hath he said, and shall he not do it? or hath he spoken, and shall he not make it good?” (Numbers 23:19)

Offending others when standing for truth can sometimes be expected. People interpret our words based on their perception, upbringing, and personal experiences. They may respond with anger and false accusations. Be reminded that Jesus was talked about and eventually crucified because others were offended so we are in good company. We can’t control how others receive our words, but we can control the manner in which we present them. Jesus never stooped to name-calling or attacking those who disagreed with Him. Neither should we. Our role is to follow His example and trust His Holy Spirit to change the hearts of those who take offense.

“And they were deeply offended and refused to believe in him. Then Jesus told them, “A prophet is honored everywhere except in his own hometown and among his own family.” (Matthew 13:57) NLT

“Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth.” (1 John 3”18)

“But when he, the Spirit of truth, comes, he will guide you into all the truth. He will not speak on his own; he will speak only what he hears, and he will tell you what is yet to come.” (John 6:13)

Do not be afraid to share the Good News of Jesus Christ. There are many that are confused with the worlds truth. There is so much fear and destruction in this world and people need to hear the truth. Believers should not remain in their holy huddle and not spread God’s truth. There are people who don’t know Jesus Christ, people we interact with daily who are devastated and discouraged by the enemy and his world of lies. Believers should share with them that Jesus loves them, died for them and rose again so they would have eternal life. That Jesus will use them for His greater purpose. It is a simple but powerful message that Jesus Christ has called Believers to share. It could be the difference between eternal life and death. There is freedom in walking in God’s truth. Man can change depending on how he feels at a particular time, but God’s Word never changes. Love and blessings…

“Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place,” (Ephesians 6:17)

“Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free” (John 8:32)

“I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth.” (3 John 1:4)

The words question and questioning have different meanings. Usually when we ask questions, we are searching for answers or knowledge. When we are questioning, it is more like a demand for more information. The synonyms for questioning are doubting, skeptical, and distrustful. Is this an English lesson? Absolutely not! My point is we usually can tell when someone is asking a question or if they are questioning us. And of course we may get defensive if the latter is true. And in response to our defensive attitude they may say, “I’m just asking.” And because we can’t know a person’s true intentions, we leave it at that. It is different when we go to God for answers because He does know our intentions.

When the disciples told Thomas that they had seen the Lord, he did not believe them. Jesus was fine with Thomas’s questions and He even showed up later to allow Thomas to see and to touch His wounds. God knows we are human and we look for answers. He also knows what we can handle and what we cannot. God knows that there is more to this life than our natural eyes can see. Which is why we have to be careful that we don’t move from questions to questioning God.

“Now Thomas, one of the twelve, was not with the disciples when Jesus came. So the other disciples told him, “We have seen the Lord!” But he said to them, “Unless I see the nail marks in his hands and put my finger where the nails were, and put my hand into his side, I will not believe.” A week later his disciples were in the house again, and Thomas was with them. Though the doors were locked, Jesus came and stood among them and said, “Peace be with you!” Then he said to Thomas, “Put your finger here; see my hands. Reach out your hand and put it into my side. Stop doubting and believe.” (John 20:24-25, 26-27)

“Because you have seen me, you have believed; blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed.” (John 20:24-29)

“for it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill his good purpose.” (Philippians 2:13)

In the Book of Job, chapters 29-31, Job questions God. Job wanted to know what he had done to deserve all his suffering. He said he could no longer endure his present agony. It was not that God minded Job searching for answers for his suffering. The issue was that Job demanded that God provide and explanation. (Job 31:35-37) As we go through life’s trials and tribulations, we must be careful not to blame God or question His nature. He is God the maker of all creation. Who are we to question His will or His ways? When we do go to the Lord with questions, just know He is not obligated to answer. We may or may not get an answer. And if we do it may not be the answer we desire. We can always go to God with our questions. Why not, He is our Father in Heaven and He knows all the answers. Personally, I don’t ask God the “why” question anymore, I have come to understand that whatever happens or doesn’t happen, it will all work out for my good. Instead I ask for wisdom and for strength and endurance during a challenging season. Even though God allows questions, we should not question His sovereign will. The Bible tells us that His ways are not our ways and His thoughts are not our thoughts. The Bible says who can know the mind of God except the Spirit?

“Then the Lord answered Job out of the whirlwind, and said: “Who is this who darkens counsel by words without knowledge? Now prepare yourself like a man; I will question you, and you shall answer Me. “Where were you when I laid the foundations of the earth? Tell Me if you have understanding. Who determined its measurements? Surely you know! Who determined its measurements? Surely you know! Or who stretched the line upon it? To what were its foundations fastened? Or who laid its cornerstone, When the morning stars sang together, And all the sons of God shouted for joy? (Job 38:1-7) NKJV

“But who are you, O man, to answer back to God? Will what is molded say to its molder, “Why have you made me like this?” (Romans 9:20)

“For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, declares the LORD. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.” (Isaiah 55:8-9)

“Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding” (Proverbs 3:5)

“If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given to him. But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea that is driven and tossed by the wind.” (James 1:5-6)

What I know for sure is that we serve an intentional God and there is always a purpose for everything He does. Everything that happens to us is not God’s doing, sometimes it is the enemy and sometimes we cause our own problems. But it doesn’t matter because God is going to work it out for the good of those who love Him. God knows and wants what is best for us. God has a grand plan for our lives and sometimes He only allows us to see a glimpse of it. We must not lean on our own understanding but trust that God is in control and He is working it out no matter what it looks like. For all Believers, it should bring peace to know Jesus is in control and has our backs no matter the circumstances. What about you, do you believe? Do you have peace? I’m just asking. Love and Blessings…

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” (Jeremiah 29”11)

“I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.” (John 16:33)

Do you sometimes feel like the weight of the world is on your shoulders? Some say that God never gives us more than we can bear. When someone is facing emotional, physical, or experiencing an overwhelming situation, we may say this to them in hopes it will bring them comfort. I have been guilty. However, I have come to realize that when we make this statement, we are actually saying that it is God who puts trouble in our lives. This is not biblical. What the Bible teaches us is that God is a loving Father who has plans for our good, and not to harm us. From the very beginning the devil has been the reason for suffering  and he still is today in this fallen sinful world. Sometimes we can bring trouble on ourselves as well. The truth is life is not always fair, but God is always good.

“The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I came that they may have life, and have it abundantly.” (John 10:10)

“Whatever is good and perfect is a gift coming down to us from God our Father, who created all the lights in the heavens.” (James 1:17)

“I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” (John 16:33)

“’For I know the plans I have for you,’ declares the Lord, ‘plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future.” (Jeremiah 29:11)

There is a scripture on temptation (1 Corinthians 10:13) which states God will not allow us to be tempted beyond what we can bear. God is faithful and when we are tempted, He will provide a way out. This scripture refers to temptation, not so much the troubles of the world. It is referring to our fight against flesh that tempts us to lie, steal, cheat, murder, or any of the things that are not pleasing to God. This scripture is telling us that God always makes a way for us to escape temptation.

“No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful: he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it.” (1 Corinthians 10:13)

“When tempted, no one should say, ‘God is tempting me.’ For God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does he tempt anyone.” (James 1:13)

In the Bible, you will see that walking with God was no picnic. Abraham left his home country for another land not knowing where he was going. Moses was given the assignment of telling a hard-hearted Pharaoh to let God’s people go. Jonah was given the responsibility of preaching to Nineveh. Paul was an Apostle to the Gentiles knowing that he would suffer terrible things for the cause of Christ. And let us not forget that Jesus, who was sinless, was given the most difficult assignment of all, bearing the sins of the world. It is no different today for those who choose to follow Christ. There are times when we will experience more than we can bear ourselves, but how wonderful that our God is always here for us! Our deliverer, our healer, our comforter, and our light in the darkness, that is who Jesus Christ is! How wonderful that He lives within us and in times of trouble, He is always on time! We must trust that even if we can’t handle it, that God can. We can give all our burdens to Him, trusting that He is in control and nothing comes as a surprise to Him. He has already worked it out, and it’s already alright! He will equip us with everything we need to fulfill His purpose for our lives. God gets the glory and we get the victory!

“As ye have therefore received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk ye in him:” (Colossians 2:6)

Only let each person lead the life that the Lord has assigned to him, and to which God has called him.” (1 Corinthians 7:17)

“I can do all things through Christ which strengthened me.” (Philippians 4:11-13)

“We do not want you to be uninformed, brothers and sisters, about the troubles we experienced in the province of Asia. We were under great pressure, far beyond our ability to endure, so that we despaired of life itself. Indeed, we felt we had received the sentence of death. But this happened that we might not rely on ourselves but on God, who raises the dead. He has delivered us from such a deadly peril, and he will deliver us again. On him we have set our hope that he will continue to deliver us, as you help us by your prayers. Then many will give thanks on our behalf for the gracious favor granted us in answer to the prayers of many.” (2 Corinthians 1:8-11)

At times, your life may seem out of control and you may feel overwhelmed. Our walk with God will come with difficulties, challenging assignments, and the enemies tricks, but we must discipline ourselves for the purposes of God. It is important that we stay connected and obedient to God. When we surrender ourselves to the will of God and focus on His Word instead of the world, we will find the life that God wants for us. God’s desire is for us to stay close to Him, to depend on Him, to lean on Him moment by moment, day by day. Don’t allow the enemy to trick you into thinking you can’t take it anymore and give up. Because what you can’t take, God can! He already has made a way, we have to trust, pray, fast, and sometimes just stand on faith, allowing God to be God! It is God’s strength and His grace that enables us to get through anything that life may throw at us. We can do all things through Him. We can do nothing without Him. We all have a purpose and God will give assignments that in our own strength are difficult. Mostly because the enemy is always working to stop God’s plans. We must remember though that the enemy cannot stop God’s plans and God will equip us with whatever we need to accomplish it!

“Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.” (Matthew 11:28-30)

“When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and through the rivers, they shall not overwhelm you; when you walk through fire you shall not be burned, and the flame shall not consume you.” (Isaiah 43:2)

Love and Blessings…

I’m going to be transparent. I drive Lil-dirty (my car) on E most of the time, not necessarily because I cannot buy gas but because I. hate. pumping. gas! Don’t judge me, I have never run out of gas! And that is because Lil Dirty and I are so in-tuned that I know how far she can go on E. Likewise in my Christian walk, I am so in-tuned with God, I know when I can no longer do life on Empty. I know when I need a refill. Sometimes I may need refilling daily! Do you sometimes feel drained and empty? If so trust that you are not the only one. We all have experienced it or we will at some point in life. It’s common to feel this way after a loss, a breakup, a diagnosis or when we are going through a difficult situation. If you are struggling with feelings of emptiness and discouragement, I suggest you encourage someone else. I know, I know you say how can I encourage someone else when I can’t even encourage myself?

Let me tell you about this woman in the Bible who was running on empty. Her circumstance seemed hopeless and she felt discouraged and drained. Her story is found in 1 Kings 17, and it begins with a man named Elijah. He was a prophet who gave some bad news to a king named Ahab. He said to Ahab; “As the Lord, the God of Israel, lives, whom I serve, there will be neither dew nor rain in the next few years except at my word” (1 Kings 17:1 NIV). Then God told Elijah to go eastward and hide in the Kerith Ravine east of the Jordan. For several months, Elijah drank from the brook and ate bread and meat delivered by ravens that God miraculously sent to feed him. Sometime later, the brook dried up. We know if God provided meat and bread every day, He could have easily provided water. But God had a different plan. Remember the woman I talked about earlier. She was a Gentile widow who lived in Zarephath and needed a miracle in her life. The Lord sent Elijah to her home for water. But he didn’t find a woman with wealth. He found a poor widow who had given up on life. When Elijah arrived, she was stooping to the ground picking up sticks and placing them in a bundle. “Excuse me,” Elijah called, “could you please bring me a cup of water?” As she turned to fetch the traveler a cup to quench his thirst, he continued. “Oh, and can you bring me a piece of bread?” And the woman answered, “I don’t have any bread, only a handful of flour in a jar and a little oil in a jug,” she said. “I am gathering a few sticks to take home and make a meal for myself and my son, that we may eat it and die” (1 Kings 17:12). She was feeling so empty that she wanted to die. But then God showed up in Elijah. “Go home and do as you have said. But first make a small loaf of bread for me from what you have and bring it to me, and then make something for yourself and your son. Do you see how God had her pour into Elijah so He could pour into her? This is what the Lord, the God of Israel said; “The jar of flour will not be used up and the jug of oil will not run dry until the day the Lord gives rain on the land” (verses 13-14). The woman who had nothing, just enough for her and her son, could have refused. But
she did what Elijah told her to do. She emptied her flour bowl and oil jar, took a little cake to Elijah, and returned home. As she goes to wash the dishes, she picks up the jar and the jug. To her surprise the jar is full of flour, and the jug is full to the brim with oil. She was running on empty but because she took what little she had and shared with another, God filled her jugs to the point of overflow!

You may not have much to offer, but God can use what little we have to bless someone. What may seem small to you may be a lifeline to the person going through a tough time. I believe that when we pour into those around us, God will miraculously fill us back up. Jesus said, “Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you” (Luke 6:38). When we are feeling discouraged and empty, pouring into someone else will take some effort. But when we do, especially in our emptiness, we feel better and God refills us. If you read the rest of the story you will see that the jar of flour was not used up and the jug of oil did not run dry. (1 Kings 17:16) That is the God we serve! When we are feeling empty, it helps when we give to someone else, even if it is just a word of encouragement. Words are powerful. They echo in hearts and minds long after they are spoken. Our words can change the course of someone’s day, even someone’s life. There are so many things we can do to encourage others. For example, sending a letter in the mail, phone calls, a simple text saying, “I’m praying for you” or “You are loved.” As we pour into others, we forget about self which allows God to restore, refuel, and reenergize us. How inspiring is that! Be encouraged. Love and Blessings…

Jesus said, “Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you”
(Luke 6:38 NIV)

“He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak.” (Isaiah 40:29)

“Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God.” (2 Corinthians 1:4-5)
“For I will satisfy the weary soul, and every languishing soul I will replenish.” (Jeremiah 31:25)
“Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: Thou anoints my head with oil; my cup runneth over.” (Psalms 23:5)

“But they who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles, they shall run and not be weary; they shall walk and not faint.” (Isaiah 40: 3)

This world is so noisy. We are weighed down with so much information, and much of it comes from the influences of the world. We are surrounded with all kinds of challenges, conflicts, hatefulness, and injustices. Our brains stay on overload  trying to sort through and process it all. How are we to navigate through a world that is getting darker every day? We know that darkness is the result of the absence of light. Trying to keep up with the worlds influence can hinder our ability to hear God, who is the Light. We must be intentional and tune out the noise so we can hear His still, small voice. He is our way through the darkness.

“Faith comes from hearing, and hearing by the word of Christ.”
(Romans 10:17 NASB)

“To him the doorkeeper opens, and the sheep hear his voice; and he calls his own sheep by name and leads them out. And when he brings out his own sheep, he goes before them; and the sheep follow him, for they know his voice.” (John 10:3-4) NIV

“Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path” (Psalm 119:105) NIV

If we take the time to get into the presence of God and listen to His truth, He will guide us into the light. The Light is life, hope, peace, and purpose, even in the midst of the world’s darkness.

“Jesus answered, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” (John 14:6) NIV

Every day we take in information. I remember my mother would say some information needs to go in one ear and out the other. But the Word of God we should hold on to, blocking anything else that does not align with it. In Mark 5, verses 25-34, Jesus healed a woman from a “flow of blood” that had caused her great suffering for twelve years. We see in verse 27 that her miracle began when she “heard about Jesus.” For twelve years she had been shunned and ostracized. For twelve years she was not allowed to touch anyone so she would not defile them. Whoever touched her or even touched anything she had sat on was also considered unclean (Lev. 15:19–25). And then she heard something about Jesus. She heard something that caused hope to spring up in her jaded heart and gave her the faith to believe she would be made well simply by touching His clothes. She heard something that gave her the boldness and resolve to press her weakened body through an entire crowd, even though Levitical law forbade her from touching anyone. She heard something that caused her to believe that in spite of the fact she was unclean, she could receive healing. That is all we need to hear today, in spite of the darkness in the world, our Lord Jesus is the light. If we be still and listen, the Holy Spirit living within us, speaks to us.

“This is the covenant I will make with the people of Israel after that time,” declares the LORD. “I will put my law in their minds and write it on their hearts. I will be their God, and they will be my people.” (Jeremiah 31:33) NIV

“Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.” (Philippians 4:8) KJV

“For the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart” (Hebrews 4:12) NIV

We all should have a relationship with God and He may communicate differently with each of us. He speaks to us through the Bible, songs, prayer, and His indescribable peace. However He speaks, if we really want to hear God, we must turn down the volume of everything else that is going on in our lives. Christ is the Messenger who touches and feeds us. He is the Word who became flesh and lived among us. He is the voice who calls out to us in spirit and truth. To seek the still small voice is simply to seek Jesus, to receive him and to hear Him. Love and Blessings…

“God is spirit, and those who worship him must worship in spirit and truth.” (John 4:24)

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Joy is a deep and enduring state of our soul that no circumstance, event, or human can steal away from us. It’s delighting in God and choosing to rejoice in all circumstances. When you are not ruled by your circumstances, you can remain in an unexplainable place of contentment. This doesn’t mean you are always in a “good mood” or that you are happy about a bad situation, it means that joy will not allow misery, sorrow, sadness, or despair to rule your thoughts or guide your actions. In happy or sad times, in comfort or difficulty, you can find joy in the presence of the Lord. Nehemiah 8:10 tells us that the joy of the Lord is our strength. It seems like it should say the strength of the Lord is our joy. But as always God got it right. Because the ability to find joy in this life really takes tremendous strength. The type of strength that we can only get from the Lord. We have joy only when we look outside ourselves to Christ. Focusing on Christ, who He is, what He has sacrificed, and His promises, brings a supernatural joy that can’t compare with temporary happiness. To be happy, something good has to be happening. Joy stays with you in spite of what’s happening. Joy satisfies the heart in a way that temporary happiness never can.

“I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete.” (John 15:11) NIV

“You make known to me the path of life; in your presence there is fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures forevermore.” (Psalm 16:11)

“For the kingdom of God is not a matter of eating and drinking but of righteousness and peace and joy in the Holy Spirit.” (Romans 14:17)

“So also you have sorrow now, but I will see you again, and your hearts will rejoice, and no one will take your joy from you.” (John 16:22)

Joy of the Lord brings peace. This peace comes from a deep well of confidence that God is who He is and that He will do what He says He will do. Peace isn’t tied to circumstances. True inner peace can only be found through a relationship with our Father and from resting in His promises. The next time you’re struggling to find the peace that we all so desperately seek, try taking a step back, breathing, and opening yourself to God. If you get caught up in everyday stresses, meditate on the promises of God. Our Father has a deep desire for us to know what joy and peace truly are, even in times of trouble. What we choose to do when we are going through is up to us. We can focus on the problem or we can focus on God, knowing that every crisis, every storm, every tragedy is an opportunity to trust Him. Love and Blessings

“Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.” (John 14:27) NIV

“May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope.” (Romans 15:13)

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 4:6-7)

” Life with God is not immunity from difficulties, but peace in difficulties.” _C.S. Lewis